A Buying Guide For Thoughtful Men

A man does not need many things. But the things he does own should serve a purpose. They should be well made, beautiful and functional. They should improve his life in some meaningful way. And ultimately, they should reflect his personality and what he values. This site is about those things.

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Getting Things Done, by David Allen

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You can’t manage time, you can only manage actions. And you can’t do that until your mind is clear of all the junk that’s keeping you distracted and unfocused.

That’s the premise behind David Allen’s remarkable book, Getting Things Done. The book has spawned a movement, particularly amongst the tech community, because of it’s instantly applicable, immensely practical step-by-step process for achieving a “mind like water.”

Getting Things Done argues that the traditional time management and goal setting methods don’t work, because your mind is too full of junk that it reminds itself of over and over again even though you a) aren’t sure what it is, and b) can’t necessarily do anything about it right now. This low-level, tactical stuff is what prevents you from focusing on the larger picture effectively, and is largely what raises your stress level. The GTD process is designed to combat this.

Allen breaks his process into 5 steps: collecting anything and everything that’s on your mind, processing each “to-do” by identifying the ideal outcome and determining the appropriate next action, organizing it into a system that works for you, reviewing it regularly so your mind learns to rely on it instead of itself (freeing you to do more creative work), and finally doing it with a clearer head and sense of focus.

For some people, implementing the entire process might sound like overkill. But everyone I’ve ever met who has tried to seriously implement even pieces of Allen’s system has reaped tremendous dividends.

Ad Hoc at Home, By Thomas Keller

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Thomas Keller is the owner of the famous French Laundry in California (routinely named one of the top 50 restaurants in the world), Per Se in New York, and a winner of “Best Chef in America”. His tendency is toward the elaborate, and his previous cookbooks have earned a reputation for being over the top in complexity.

But with his most recent offering, Keller has made a collection of beautiful, delicious and affordable rustic recipes that the most novice cook can master. Based on his California restaurant of the same name, Ad Hoc at Home provides the reader with 200+ spectcacular options that will impress friends and woo lovers.

Some recipes do call for a little extra love, but thankfully Ad Hoc at Home provides an extensive introduction on how to become a better cook, and tips along the way to master the recipes. And through the process of making his creations, the reader gains a little bit of Keller’s love of process and attention to detail. Cooking becomes less of a chore and more of an exercise in discipline and a refinement of one’s taste. And you’ll gain the satisfaction of making your friend’s the best fried chicken and chocolate cookies they’ve ever had in their lives.